Having read palms for a number of years, one of the things I have noticed time and time again is how common it is for people to be living on the wrong life path. So often there is a HUGE disconnect between the life people live and they life they are meant to be living.
Let’s change this! Start living your life on the right path today. Here’s how…
Are you on the Wrong Life Path?
Are you on the right life path? Do you live a life consistent with the will of the universe or are you fighting fate at every turn?
How do you even figure out the answers to these questions?
Believe it or not, answering these questions is easier than you might think. In fact, I would hazard a guess that most of you already know the answers to these questions.
The problem, if we have to consider it as such, is that we don’t like the answers.
Would you believe me if I told you that most people are on the wrong life path? Would you be surprised to learn you the universe is sending signs and as a society we’re ignoring them over and over again?
We’ve chosen to live contrary to fate, contrary to the path the universe has set out for us. The worst part is, it’s been normalized to such an extent we consider it rare and remarkable when someone is living the life they were meant to!
That is upsetting to me!
Benefits of Living Life on the Right Path
You see, we write off the incredibly obvious signs the universe sends us as <strong>stress, burn out, depression, anxiety, being overwhelmed.</strong>
We fight against our nature, we work in jobs that go against our values, morals and beliefs. Then, we find ourselves wondering why our mental health is in such a state of disarray.
In my mind, it’s easy to see that people are feeling the negative effects of ignoring the will of the universe.
Let’s be honest here, the universe is not something to be fought. What she wants, she gets! While we can all fight it for a time, there will come a point where it all becomes too much.
Signs You’re on the Wrong Life Path
You’re ALWAYS Tired
Ever feel like you could sleep for the entire weekend and still be tired?
Fighting fate, working against the universe is exhausting! Honestly, not a fight any of us have a hope of winning.
Sleep is so important to both our physical and mental wellbeing. But when we spend our days living in a way we’re not meant to, when our days are spent operating in contrast to our values, we can’t sleep.
Signs and Symptoms of ALWAYS being tired
Have you ever slept for 8 hours and woken up tired?
Spent the night tossing and turning into the wee hours of the morning?
Do you often find yourself craving an afternoon nap or wide awake when you know you should be sleeping?
These are all signs the universe is sending to let us know we aren’t living our life on the right path.
Perhaps the worst part is that when we’re tired we’re not inspired, we’re not motivated to live the life we most want.
Making the changes we need to make to get ourselves on the right path seems overwhelming if not impossible.
You Hate Mondays
Whether it’s actually Monday for you, or just your first day back at work, is a sure sign that you’re on the wrong life path.
When you don’t look forward to the way you spend 33% of your life, there’s a problem that needs to be dealt with.
The way you spend your time should ignite some spark of joy. You should feel a sense of pride and dignity.
Signs and Symptoms of Hating Mondays
Do you often find yourself affected by stress induced conditions like headaches and stomach aches? Especially right before going to work.
How often do you take mental health days? Those days where you’re not really sick but so vehemently don’t want to go to work.
Do thoughts of work keep you up at night?
Although I know it’s not reasonable to expect everyone to love their job and love going to work every day, that sense of dread is problematic.
It makes it difficult to be motivated, to be inspired. We don’t want to do our best work and that in itself puts us in contrast with what the universe desires of us.
Perhaps the surest sign of hating Mondays, of doing a job that is not consistent with your life’s purpose is that you have to bargain with yourself to keep going. You might bribe yourself with a new pair of shoes if you can just keep going till Friday, or if things are really bad, the end of the week.
You Just Feel Empty
While work takes up the bulk of our time, it’s just as likely that we’re spending our non-work hours in a way that defies the will of the universe.
You’ll find yourself pulling away from people and activities you once enjoyed. It’s not a tangible thing really. Chances are you’ll still enjoy those activities, you’ll simply find yourself craving more.
Signs and Symptoms of Feeling Empty
Do you find yourself unfulfilled no matter what you do?
Have activities you once enjoyed begun to feel bland, pointless and tedious? A waste of time?
How long has it been since you’ve felt truly fulfilled?
If your life is no longer bringing you joy, chances are it’s time to change something. It’s exhausting doing things we don’t like and that just contributes to the cycle of disharmony we’ve found ourselves stuck in.
Everything is just SO Irritating
The problem with living a life outside of our purpose is that eventually it takes a toll on us. We might fool our conscious selves into believing it’s alright, but even that only lasts a short while.
A strong will, determination and sheer ignorance can only get us so far. Before long, we’ll find ourselves short tempered, engulfed by sarcasm, and with no patience energy left change the path we’re on.
<strong>Signs and Symptoms of being <em>Easily Irritated</em></strong>
How often do yourself snapping at people, whether at work or not?
Do you often say things you later regret or feel embarrassed about?
Are you impolite and impatient when people come to you with honest questions?
It seems obvious to me that living in a disharmonious way would be irritating. These are all signs that change is necessary.
However, often we write them off as being tired, “hangry” or even depressed instead of seeing them for what they are and making the changes we so desperately need to make.
You Don’t Like Yourself Very Much
Of all the signs the universe send, this is the most heart breaking.
See, fate has a set course it wants you to follow. When you’re living consistent with that course, you feel good about yourself and the things you’re doing.
When you’re not well the opposite happens. You suffer from what some people might call low self esteem.
This is so upsetting because it has the potential to so negatively and drastically impact a life. When left unchecked low self esteem can easily snowball into serious mental health conditions like depression and anxiety.
It makes sense in that it’s hard to feel good about yourself when you don’t feel good about the life you’re living.
Yet you keep living that life because you don’t feel motivated or even deserving of better things.
Signs and Symptoms of Low Self Esteem
Do you feel like you’re a good person, deserving of all the good things life has to offer?
Are you happy with the way your life is?
Do you feel optimistic about the future and the gifts the universe has in store for you?
If you answered no to any of those questions, you might need to take a good hard look at the way you’ve been living your life and make some changes.
Those changes won’t be easy but they will be worth it and the universe will reward your hard work handsomely.
When you’re not on the Right Life Path, you just know
Ultimately, when you’re living life in a disharmonious fashion, you just know. Whether you’re ready willing to admit it or not is another question.
If you’ve found your way to this page, I like to think it’s because you’ve started to take not of the signs the universe has been sending you and your finally ready to live life the way you were meant to.
Everything happens for a reason and with any luck, this will be the push you need to kick start your life and make the changes necessary to start living a life I just know you’re going to love.